Women continue to put women down. Men continue to put women down and in the same breath expect a woman to be loyal, forgiving, smart, successful, attractive, excitng, and good in bed-but not so good in bed that they question your "lack of" experience, which they prefer.
Marriage as an institution is failing. So obviously that "WIFEY" shit doesn't mean anything. This article-in my opinion-created the image that women who arent "WIFEY" or dont want to be "WIFEY" are not intelligent. Men marry dumb bitches too. Are all married people classy and smart. NO.
Marriage as an institution is failing. So obviously that "WIFEY" shit doesn't mean anything. This article-in my opinion-created the image that women who arent "WIFEY" or dont want to be "WIFEY" are not intelligent. Men marry dumb bitches too. Are all married people classy and smart. NO.
"PUSSY" could be a genius and not want to marry the man she's fucking. He said "are you 'Jeopardy' or 'Family Feud'"? I kick ass in both games but that doesn't make me more marriable than the next chick.
NC17 goes on to say that men talk to women on the phone that they cant stand and make effort to get what they want from "PUSSY." If you are making the efforts mentioned, for a girl you just want to fuck, and she gives in to your attempts, aren't you both "PUSSY"? Can we say that men fall into two categories "HUBBY" or "COCK" and if we dont bring you home it's because you werent smart or attractive or worthy of authenticity?
Why are women always the blamed for men leaving, cheating and lying?
If men dont want a girl who fucks on the first date why do they fuck on the first date? If a girl is sucking or fucking on a first date perhaps she doesn't want to be "WIFEY" perhaps she see's you as "COCK" and just wants to get off for her own satisfaction.
Two people make a decision to have sex so if a girl is wrong for that so is the guy. Many women dont care to keep a man and many men will cheat on the "WIFEY" NC17 speaks of. So is it better to be "WIFEY" just because he will stick around after fucking "PUSSY?" "WIFEY'S" get played too. If you want to be "Wifey" good for you. If you want to be "PUSSY" good for you. To judge one the or the other goes against humanity. We have all had relationships that didn't turn out to be what we thought. We have all had relationships that are loving and respectful. Women are not the problem. Men are not the problem. When two people come together what happens between them depends on the actions of both individuals. NOT JUST WOMEN. So please stop comparing "WIFEY" to "PUSSY" because at the end of the day everyone is getting FUCKED. Nobody is better or worse because of what happens afterwards.
NC17 goes on to say that men talk to women on the phone that they cant stand and make effort to get what they want from "PUSSY." If you are making the efforts mentioned, for a girl you just want to fuck, and she gives in to your attempts, aren't you both "PUSSY"? Can we say that men fall into two categories "HUBBY" or "COCK" and if we dont bring you home it's because you werent smart or attractive or worthy of authenticity?
Why are women always the blamed for men leaving, cheating and lying?
If men dont want a girl who fucks on the first date why do they fuck on the first date? If a girl is sucking or fucking on a first date perhaps she doesn't want to be "WIFEY" perhaps she see's you as "COCK" and just wants to get off for her own satisfaction.
Two people make a decision to have sex so if a girl is wrong for that so is the guy. Many women dont care to keep a man and many men will cheat on the "WIFEY" NC17 speaks of. So is it better to be "WIFEY" just because he will stick around after fucking "PUSSY?" "WIFEY'S" get played too. If you want to be "Wifey" good for you. If you want to be "PUSSY" good for you. To judge one the or the other goes against humanity. We have all had relationships that didn't turn out to be what we thought. We have all had relationships that are loving and respectful. Women are not the problem. Men are not the problem. When two people come together what happens between them depends on the actions of both individuals. NOT JUST WOMEN. So please stop comparing "WIFEY" to "PUSSY" because at the end of the day everyone is getting FUCKED. Nobody is better or worse because of what happens afterwards.
I didnt even read the article you are responding to but I can get a good idea of the content. You make many valid points and I know that Ive been "cock" lately and that shit kinda sucks, even though Im not necessarily lookin to be "hubby" at the current moment. A nigga loves a woman confident enough to get fuck/suck on the first date, I contribute that to ME and my awareness of how I affect a woman (sometimes theyre jus freaks tho). Cant knock her but hopefully its not habitual and she exhibits a high criteria and standard of whom she allows to ENTER HER. "Hubby" is gonna wanna feel special and thats impossible if youre 25, fucked 25 dudes, and you consider me the best of the bunch....hmmmm, fuck that. I wanna marry up. One has to understand their own value TO OTHERS and improve it and make the respect and consideration a REQUIREMENT not an option. We all jus have to become better individuals that make better choices in life and love. You can only blame yourself for not being a better judge of character. Muhfuhs been bitches and been assholes, sometimes one is just too smitten to recognize.
ReplyDeleteI too didn't read the article but I understood your response and I believe the issue stem beyond sex or relationship. People are on a different level in the lack of respect, self worth and love they have for themselves and each other. "We" in the genernal sense have little to no respect for ourselves and each other, its evident in how we treat people. From a guy's point of view I'm highly upset at how I see my fellow brothers treat women as if she's his personal toy with no regard to her feelings or worth. And I've watch women treat themselves just the same. We've all at some point played the "pussy" and "dick" as you put it but its how we played those role that show how little we view each other. Because there's little self worth amongst our generation we are having a discussion like this.
ReplyDeletehttp://blackgirlsareeasy.blogspot.com/2011/03/are-you-wifey-or-are-you-pussy.html The thing i read....thanks you so much Mufassa and Class for your well written and thought out responses. i think the topic is a great one of interest. xoxoxo
ReplyDeleteYour welcome Alesia. I read most of the blog in questioned and I understood, base on the parts I read, the point the writer was making. Women does need to carry themselves better and understand its not there looks that will keep a man or how good she is in bed. BUT to expand on the point I made in a previous comment, the writer fail to realize he (men) is a part of the problem.
ReplyDeleteThe blog talks about women giving it up on the first date but fail to see that the man gave it up to. I've never met or heard of a woman materbating alone in front of a man on the first date so just as negatively as the women is being looked at so should the guy.
The problem I see that has a strong hold on alot of brothas is that, and I speak in a general term, we say we want a good woman but as soon as we see some ass and tits in our face we are quick to run in that direction. Then turn and call the young lady a trick, bitch or a hoe. We rush to what we ultimately don't want they complain that its the women's fault, belittle her and treat her with no respect.
Brothas fail to realize that at times we are just dicks to some women and thats okay as long as there's an understanding as to the position and relations establish by the parties. But to blame women solely I feel it isn't fair. There are some who want to be wifey but the way how some of these kats act I don't blame some of them who get some dick and keep in pushing.
Our generation is quick to point fingers never stopping to analyze what we add to the situaion to make it the way it is. We lack the understanding and passion to try and fight, we want things instantly; a perfect man, perfect woman, perfect relationship. We fail to see that all of that take time, work, commitment and understanding, we are too impatient.
The writer's blog is an interesting one but it is one sided.